I feel like the era of negative criticism for the sake of negative criticism is kind of dead. It was definitely a thriving thing back in the aughts, or maybe the algorithms know I'm not interested in it. And the YouTube shill might be dying out as well, or I'm just not watching them. Companies seem less inclined to send out samples these days either because it was an easy expense to cut when times got rough or because they've done some research that says they don't equate to better sales. Usually when I see one it's a smaller company trying to get some exposure, and most reviewers seem pretty forgiving in those settings which I don't find fault with. Not many people want to kick the little guy.
Negativity is alive and thriving. Not just toys and YouTube. On any media front these days, it's all about negativity and enragement engagement. I'm certain many of them aren't even sincere, but it drives the engagement and algorithm, which feeds the system.
It's why so many movie clips on Reels or YouTube don't include the source. They want people to ask Source? Or share the source. Either way, they got the engagement padding. The dating grifters also sow discord. Just say Everyone Sucks, Everything is Terrible, and people will rush to agree or disagree and defend themselves. Viewcount accomplished.
As an artist so many art YouTubers love to declare you're doing a thing wrong or your technique is bad, when even the video isn't going to say that - but they need people to bum rush the thumbnail and headline and give them twenty seconds of runtime while they get defensiven the comments. Bills paid.
But regarding toys, what I've experience as I've adjusted my follows and algorithm is that there are creators that just focus on the negativity. To the point they beat extinct horses, because that war drum summons other tribal people who just want to dog a company, a person, or a philosophy/political angle. They are smaller, but the parasocial relationship is enough for the creator to thrive on Patreon or subs or whatnot. Maybe even real Whatnot
And then those channels make friends with other small fish, and cross community happens, and it's enough for them.
The parasocial thing is the shift I don't get with. Some people just want a friend, and they find that in these creators.
Like you, I tend to keep ANY of my interests to myself or close circle. Saying I Saw This Movie at a dinner is enough to get people going But Why IGN Says It Was a Six..!
Pass.