Ru1977
The Irishman
Part of me is relieved that I'm not crazy to see the validity of it, but only a small part. Thank you both though.
There's still time. I was a voracious reader as an elementary school kid, but I quickly fell off once I outgrew The Hardy Boys. I felt like they didn't make books for my interests. I only got back to regularly reading after grad school, when I discovered high fantasy. That's what I'd been looking for all along.My daughter, however, hates reading and basically never does it unless something really catches her interest. I think the last book she got all the way through was Slash's biography.
We have a (dangerous) rule in my house; we never say no to books. If there's something you want to read, we'll get it for you. My daughter (she's 15) has many books. She rarely finishes them. Part of it is the ADHD, for sure. Her mind wanders and she gets bored and loses interest. Or the book is part of some hyper-fixation that suddenly ends.There's still time. I was a voracious reader as an elementary school kid, but I quickly fell off once I outgrew The Hardy Boys. I felt like they didn't make books for my interests. I only got back to regularly reading after grad school, when I discovered high fantasy. That's what I'd been looking for all along.
Totally relatable for me. I used to be a voracious reader when I was younger- to the point that I was above the rest of my class at least up until 3rd or 4th grade (thanks Hooked on Phonics!). You couldn't find a Goosebumps book I hadn't read at least once. Once I got older, though, and the ADHD settled in, it was a no-go for me. I still lament the fact that I'm not as big a reader as I used to be. The only times I can really force myself to sit and read is on a plane. Comics and graphic novels are much easier for me, which feels silly to say. I hate that I'm a grown man and need pretty pictures to look at in order for me to read.We have a (dangerous) rule in my house; we never say no to books. If there's something you want to read, we'll get it for you. My daughter (she's 15) has many books. She rarely finishes them. Part of it is the ADHD, for sure. Her mind wanders and she gets bored and loses interest. Or the book is part of some hyper-fixation that suddenly ends.
It can be frustrating, though. Every time she's sure THIS is something she'll really get into - she doesn't. She's huge into music, so a few biographies have grabbed her, but even those took her a long time to get through. We don't pressure or pry, though. My cousin was forced to read regularly by his dad and, to this day as a 50-year-old man he still fucking hates reading with a passion (he does have a doctorate in economics, so like.... there's that).
If you want to discuss Gaza, do so in the politics thread.
So rather than voting for Democrats who aren't helping Palestinians, better to elect a Republican who will also do harm to our country, and papayas many others as he can?