Frequently, when working with parents regarding LGBTQ+ youth, I hear “it’s not that I object, it’s just that some things aren’t for kids, they aren’t ready to deal with that yet and I don’t feel comfortable having ‘that talk’ yet”, to which I reply “fair enough, but if we are going to be fair by your definition and get all ‘that stuff’ out of kids’ way, we have to take out the heteronormative relationship/sex stuff as well, and that means no fairy tales, nothing where people kiss or get married or have children at all, so how would you like to approach that?”