RicksNerdLife
Thoughtful
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Luckily I had parents that have always encouraged and enabled my collecting. They occasionally would toss out a "You're not too old for that now?"-- but never in a "You're too old for this" type of way. More of a "Really? You're not more focused on girls right now?".Seeing all these makes me realize how much enforced restraint I operated under until I could drive myself to the toy store. There is *so much* of this I would have bought (that Connectors Dracula?!? HOW did I not own that??????) if I had been unsupervised and not “talked out of it” by my mom (“the glowing skeleton guy does look fun, BUT YOU ARE TOO OLD FOR HE-MAN NOW, RIGHT????????”).
I did snag that Little Dracula toy at a discount book shop while visiting my grandma. Hell, I remember being on a road trip with my grandparents in 1993 and I snuck into the Walmart toy section pretending I needed to stop to use the bathroom, and managed to secretly buy and stash a BTAS Joker figure. Ahhhh those were the days: where being interested in toys was treated as a social problem or even a disease. Definitely why I have such a maximalist approach as an adult. I buy ALL the Scare-Glows now.
No, Mom. I can multitask.
She has always loved shopping for shit for Christmas for me, she enjoyed the hunt... but you know..I always felt guilty asking for too much. We weren't poor, but we weren't rich, either. So I would leave a lot off of my want lists to not burden my parents too much, because trust me, if it was on my list, they would get it for me. So, I would save them from themselves.
Long story long, I am pretty sure that that guilt is what drives my collecting habits and maximalist approach now, myself. Couldn't ask for it then, adult with adult money, getting it now.