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I had a come-to-Jesus moment with this recently. Not just RPing, but the game in general. Whatever the DM has cooking probably isn't my ideal game. There's too much magic, there's too little magic, the stakes are too high, the stakes are too low, the setting is not what I want, etc. If I don't like the setting, that's what my DM sessions are for. Playing the game the DM wants to run will almost always result in the best player experience. Same with RPing. I try to meet the other players where they are.
So many TTRPG players and DMs actually just want to write a book. The faster they can square that and understand that the game is going to be a different thing from 'the story I've created in my head,' the happier they will be.