You Ever Get Tired of This?

I was thinking about this today while opening some new toys (and having the continuing existential crisis) and realized another element of my discontent is definitely the cyclical nature of it. Probably 80% of the toys I open I have already owned at some point in my life in some manner. More than half of my Joe Classified collection is just 'I had this in the ARAH days and now I bought it again.' And I'm really asking myself, how many times are these companies going to convince me that I need a new He-Man, a new Luke Skywalker, and a new Wolverine? So far the apparent answer is 'many, many times.' But I NEED to sit down and decide on a stopping point where my collection not of a line, but of an entire brand is just finished.
And if there's never a stopping point where I think I can be satisfied, I definitely will have to deal with that problem.
I find myself doing this as well...evaluating whether I NEED to keep buying that same character over and over again, and I'm at a point where I'm just not doing it anymore with MANY of the characters I already have. If I really like a character, and have a figure I feel really represents them, then I'm just going to draw the line and say "I'm done" in regards to them. Sure, there will be another upgrade at some point, but if it's as simple as "this is pinless and the figure I have is pinned and that is the only difference", well...I'm gonna have to pass.
I'll live vicariously through those who went for it.
I find this to be something I'm doing a lot of as well. I see a lot of cool pictures of things like Operation Monster Force, and while I think they look REALLY amazing, I've just had to content myself with looking at the great pictures my fellow collectors do of them.
Forget "universe building". It will never end. Find a finite niche of the universe you like and instead of getting everything, be happy with representation.
Yeah, I've long since decided that there is NO WAY I'm ever going to have every single character from any fictional universe in a line. I have to just stick with the characters I really like, and pass on the ones I don't. It may mean I don't have a character who was on a team for three issues or something, but that's okay. My display is still gonna look great because it will have the characters I WANT in it.
Me too and I find myself saying that most often in regards to figure sets like the one above, something that represents something I really like that has not grown to out of control amounts.
It's a great feeling. I walk into my "Geek Room", as I call it, and I just love seeing all the cool pieces I have. It isn't overwhelming, it isn't a giant cluttered mess...I can look at the figures and really enjoy the feeling that each shelf brings me.
 
It's a great feeling. I walk into my "Geek Room", as I call it, and I just love seeing all the cool pieces I have. It isn't overwhelming, it isn't a giant cluttered mess...I can look at the figures and really enjoy the feeling that each shelf brings me.
And when guests can also parse the content, it becomes more understandable and less "Okay weirdo".
 
And when guests can also parse the content, it becomes more understandable and less "Okay weirdo".
Definitely! I've recently had some great moments with this. My kids came to visit with a friend in tow, and they took them into the Geek Room because they knew they'd appreciate it. My niece also brought her boyfriend over a few weeks ago and she immediately drug him up there. It was really gratifying to have these younger folks faces light up with excitement at my collection.
 
but if it's as simple as "this is pinless and the figure I have is pinned and that is the only difference", well...I'm gonna have to pass.
The problem is with the 'ifs.' That's what I struggle with. You said IF it's just pinned to pinless, you go without. What if it's a bigger upgrade than that? At what point is the answer 'no more' and not just 'no more... unless....'


And when guests can also parse the content, it becomes more understandable and less "Okay weirdo".
Even as a geek myself, I can't handle geek rooms/collections that are just wall-to-wall, floor-to-ceiling STUFF. When it's so much you can't even immediately figure out what you're looking at and it feels more 'hoarder' than 'collector.' I don't think there's any hard and fast rules for what qualifies, but I know it when I see it.
 
One thing I've found at different points in my life is if I think a hobby isn't giving me pleasure any more, I have to evaluate if I'm in a depression. It sneaks up every 5 years or so. It's usually not the hobby that's making me feel down - it's a by-product of something else in my life.
This exactly for me. I started on some meds for it almost a year ago now and I haven't had any doubts about my collecting since. Now it just makes me happy instead.
 
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I don't have it even close to being all figured out but I can tell one thing that help me:

Forget "universe building". It will never end. Find a finite niche of the universe you like and instead of getting everything, be happy with representation. I'll take Todd's Batman Returns line. I love the movie and I love there are figures. I got Batman, Penguin, Catwoman, Max and the penguin commandos. There are two Penguin figures from that line, the single release and the one that comes with the Duck. I'm skipping the one from the Duck, I have a Danny DiVito Penguin represented on my shelf for Batman to fight and I'm good (I did the same thing with the Jim Carrey Riddler, Todd made two different looks, I chose one). I'm going to call it good there. The temptation is to say, "Well, now we need the Red Triangle Circus Gang and unmasked Catwoman and Chip Shreck and..............." Nope. I have to call it there. Those 5 figures represent that movie very well. You can do the same thing with another nerd movie or a video game or a comic book storyline. Find a handful of good figures to represent, be happy, don't be obsessed with "And now we need........"


Me too and I find myself saying that most often in regards to figure sets like the one above, something that represents something I really like that has not grown to out of control amounts.

Yeah, I tend to lean in this direction of skipping the universe build these days. I started collecting in 2020 with McFarlane's first DC wave, and then I exploded in a thousand directions because I discovered that all of my favorite nostalgic franchises from my childhood were represented with something by somebody (or multiple somebodies...). Before I knew it, I had way overspent what I initially intended to and I had a ton of stuff just because it "completed the set" so to speak. It was large volume, it was a mess on the shelves (and on the floor), and it was overwhelming trying to enjoy or display it all.

Sticking with the DC example, I was buying figures of characters I don't particularly care for just because they were part of a team. I have no particular interest in the JSA as a team, but I had picked up a Jay Garrick figure as part of my "Flash Family" and suddenly I was looking for Alan Scott and Spectre and Hawkman and and and. Eventually, I was rearranging one day and the thought crossed my mind - I don't even like most of these guys. I didn't dislike them, but I certainly didn't like them enough to have them displayed. I questioned why I bought them in the first place. So eventually, I parted with all of them except for Jay and I left him with the Flash's.

Green Lantern is a concept I like quite a bit, and they've had some interesting stories, but they're not my favorite corner of DC. So when a new Hal Jordan (the shiny Walmart one) came out, I was able to easily skip it because I already had a Hal. The same with the different John Stewarts.

As with most addictions, the key to breaking it is just starting. I used to be a pack a day smoker, and the hardest part of quitting was deciding that I really wasn't going to pick up another one. After that, it was easy to ignore the pull. But you have to start somewhere. Now, I only buy things that mean something to me (not counting some things I've purchased for review on our channel and immediately resold), and it's helped immensely with the overwhelming feeling of just wanting to can all of it.
 
My trouble isn't so much "Why do I need to buy this character again?" as "Why do I even like this character?" or "Why do I feel the need to own them in 6" plastic form?"

It's the opposite of our If You Give a Mouse a Cookie problem. It starts with the fringe members of my collection and works its way to Captain America and Spider-Man.
 
Yeah, I tend to lean in this direction of skipping the universe build these days. I started collecting in 2020 with McFarlane's first DC wave, and then I exploded in a thousand directions because I discovered that all of my favorite nostalgic franchises from my childhood were represented with something by somebody (or multiple somebodies...). Before I knew it, I had way overspent what I initially intended to and I had a ton of stuff just because it "completed the set" so to speak. It was large volume, it was a mess on the shelves (and on the floor), and it was overwhelming trying to enjoy or display it all.

Sticking with the DC example, I was buying figures of characters I don't particularly care for just because they were part of a team. I have no particular interest in the JSA as a team, but I had picked up a Jay Garrick figure as part of my "Flash Family" and suddenly I was looking for Alan Scott and Spectre and Hawkman and and and. Eventually, I was rearranging one day and the thought crossed my mind - I don't even like most of these guys. I didn't dislike them, but I certainly didn't like them enough to have them displayed. I questioned why I bought them in the first place. So eventually, I parted with all of them except for Jay and I left him with the Flash's.

Green Lantern is a concept I like quite a bit, and they've had some interesting stories, but they're not my favorite corner of DC. So when a new Hal Jordan (the shiny Walmart one) came out, I was able to easily skip it because I already had a Hal. The same with the different John Stewarts.

As with most addictions, the key to breaking it is just starting. I used to be a pack a day smoker, and the hardest part of quitting was deciding that I really wasn't going to pick up another one. After that, it was easy to ignore the pull. But you have to start somewhere. Now, I only buy things that mean something to me (not counting some things I've purchased for review on our channel and immediately resold), and it's helped immensely with the overwhelming feeling of just wanting to can all of it.
The "Trickle Down Collect-o-nomics", as I sometimes refer to it. I was the same way- start with the heavy hitters, especially in terms of a team, and go from there. Like- of course Anakin is cool, but you can't have Anakin without Obi-Wan, and if Ahsoka is available, you gotta have the trio, etc. I've luckily been able to put the kibosh on that sort of thinking; maybe it's just because I have a decent amount of figures that I do have representation of that trio and so on, so it doesn't feel as necessary, but still. Teams like X-Men, I'm totally cool having just the characters I'm familiar with and have an attraction toward.

I'm lucky that Batman is a big love of mine, because I don't feel the same pull there. I can have a Batman and not feel the need to have his Robin, or all the other Batsuits, etc. Same with villains- I'm totally cool cherry-picking the ones I really like, or the designs I like. Scarecrow being the exception, of course, but everything else- I like Arkhamverse Zsasz well enough, but I feel zero compulsion to get the classic Zsasz Todd released, for instance. I'm also totally cool mixing and matching universes. No discomfort will be felt if Arkhamverse Riddler is chilling alongside a comic-based Two Face or Hugo Strange, for instance.

My biggest hurdle was army building, and luckily I grew out of that one. Especially when it came to Black Series and all the clones and everything- somewhere along the way there was the perfect mix of space anxiety and money anxiety that it just broke it for me. I don't need every variant, and I don't need multiple. One Clone is enough to represent that battalion, etc. Freeing myself of that has honestly been the biggest relief, honestly. A rare case where anxiety can be a good thing, I guess.
 
That's actually something I've wrestled with from time to time. 'wouldn't it be nice to just not, like at all?'
It may be intentional. It may not be, but I feel like the current state of collecting also preys on this. Things used to just be on shelves for a whole quarter or more. Things used to be reissued easily or Evergreen.

Now even Hasbro product. You have to snap it up now or you're never going to see it. And I do think that takes advantage of a lot of the people with more addictive and emotional engines on this.
 
Yes, but also no. Hence this forum, hence this thread.
Right, heh. And I got there a little bit when I purged a ton of my MCU figures. I made a rule to have only movie versions of comic characters I loved as a kid (the cast of the original Secret Wars, Spider-Man allies, Claremont X-men), and the ones I connected with as an adult as well (like Daredevil, or the Dark Avengers), so I sold off Eternals and GOTG despite loving those movies. I can't get figures just because I love the movie; I'll simply enjoy the movie and fight that urge to own a piece of it. But it doesn't feel like it would be much of a leap from that point to "well, why not cease altogether on Marvel and just enjoy the movies and the comics?" Why own a little representation of it? And always comes back to whether or not it gives me joy. I own three Boba Fett helmets and all three of them give me a lot of joy everytime I hold them or simply look at them, and I price Boba Fett helmets every couple weeks because if three makes me happy, how about four or five? And that's the thing, right? This leads to those. Marvel was more of a compulsion; I cannot rest until I have this whole list. I get it, I open it, I put it on the shelf, move on, and there just isn't a lot of satisfaction there beyond accomplishment, and for me at least that's not a fun way to collect. Star Wars Black Series I do enjoy owning and looking at them, and I purged a lot there as well but not as severely as Marvel. Now I've severely gone to town on Classified, but those are REALLY fun and enjoyable, but even with them I'm getting to a point where maybe I own too many to really enjoy them. Meaning, I have a bunch and it starts to make them all feel diminished. Having a handful makes each very special, but having a hundred turns into a muddled sea.

But like Chooch said, there are times where I want to just sell all of it off and be without, and that's actually my depression taking the wheel. So it's been a task to determine if that's actually it when I feel like doing these mass purges, but the marvel and star wars ones were so relieving once it was done.
 
My trouble isn't so much "Why do I need to buy this character again?" as "Why do I even like this character?" or "Why do I feel the need to own them in 6" plastic form?"

It's the opposite of our If You Give a Mouse a Cookie problem. It starts with the fringe members of my collection and works its way to Captain America and Spider-Man.

That's actually something I've wrestled with from time to time. 'wouldn't it be nice to just not, like at all?'

Yes, but also no. Hence this forum, hence this thread.


This exact exchange is basically what happens in my brain at least once or twice a week.
 
I think about this often too:

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