TBF too, the vast majority of anime that gets recommended is in a very narrow bandwidth even within that subset. It's changing now, but for years I'd recommend stuff like Satoshi Kon's movies to folks and just get blank stares, but the reason I like them is because they're animation for adults, and not in the Heavy Metal "these ain't your kid's cartoons, we got titties and blood" kind of way. Like they're just serious dramas.
I have so many good anime recs for folks that are not your typical shonen battle animes and whatnot.
I'd love to know what the exceptions are, but I get it. I've got a friend who simply cannot get into comics. Something about the art just doesn't click with her brain. And y'know, if you're consuming art it should be because you fall at least a little in love with it, right?