I think the problem is reducing things to “one distinct side versus another distinct side” aka “good vs evil” when instead of “good” it’s “a bunch of flawed people, many trying to do their best, some very much not so much” vs, well, “evil”.
The “both sides are bad” argument may be salient under “normal” circumstances: our current situation is NOT normal. Everyone gets nervous about these sorts of comparisons, but I submit to you that having the “both sides are bad” argument right now is the same as Germans in the 1930s having that same conversation.
Yes, both the Dems and the GOP helped get us here, but currently we aren’t dealing with either of those in power, not in their traditional forms. MAGA uses the shell of the GOP like a parasite that has devoured its host’s corpse from within. I am no fan of the GOP in any modern incarnation, but this is not that. This is something else, something MUCH worse, and it’s not remotely about opposing “teams” right now.